Costs and control in Divorce

So February is nearly upon us, scary - one month down!

I have struggled this month with diet, exercise and all the new year resolution type things that I was to do but all of that pales into insignificance when I meet new clients struggling with all of that, normal life, children and the prospect of a separation.

Many have been happy that finally they have felt able to do something about the feelings that they have harboured for a long time but even when people have plucked up that courage and taken that step they find themselves trying to deal with a process that is alien to them and the costs that come with it.

I have read in several places over the last month or so that Divorce costs £10,000+ (I have seen that as a statement in itself with no qualification about the level of assets or complexity of the case).

Now whilst I accept that there are some cases that are complex or very contested and which attract alot of legal costs, there are many more that are relatively straightforward and that should not attract anywhere near that amount. It worries me to think that there are people who will shy away from getting the legal advice they need to make an informed decision because of scaremongering about costs.

There is a cost, of course, to obtaining specialist legal advice on Divorce - much as there is a cost to having your car fixed or taking financial advice - but there is also a value to that advice - be it in peace of mind, protection of assets or security for the future.

People going through the process of separation or divorce want control, they want fairness and they want to feel that they are not lost and that they have direction - that is fine but often the sticking point is cost.

In late 2012 I entered a Mediation Partnership with Mediation Worcestershire, along with a few other Solicitors in the area. The concept is that people who attend Mediation to resolve their differences but who naturally require legal advice at some point in that process, will be able to turn to members of the Partnership for that advice at a fixed cost.

The aim is to make sure that couples who are separating have the benefit of control through the Mediation process with access to the specialist legal advice that they need at a cost that is clear.

I am imensely pleased that as a profession as a whole we are trying to ensure that access to legal advice remains open and never will this be more important than post April 2013, when the availability of legal aid for family law cases will be abolished, save for those cases involving Domestic Violence or Care issues.

I know that there is a cost to bear for legal advice but I hope that as this year progresses people do not leave themselves counting the cost of not having had it!