Opponents of the concept at
that stage voiced their concern that it could lead to abusive fathers retaining
control over their partners, especially on the basis of the proposal that
fathers have the ability to declare their own parental status if the mother
leaves their name off the certificate.
The Welfare Reform Act did,
nevertheless, include a provision making it compulsory for mothers to name a
child’s father on the birth certificate if he was known to them. The
consequences of non-compliance ranged from a fine of £200 to 7 days
imprisonment for perjury if a false statement was made.
When this government came
into power it decided not to press ahead with enforcing that particular
provision of the Act but the topic raised its head again late last year when
the government announced that it was looking at this again as a way of ensuring
involvement by fathers in their children’s lives and by way of encouraging a
sense of responsibility.
The government has talked of
exemptions for this provision being mothers who are victims of domestic
violence (if a GP or social worker can corroborate any claim that naming the
father would put the mother or child at risk), conceptions by way of rape or
sperm donation.
The Liberal Democrats appear
to oppose the idea but will forcing fathers to sign birth certificates or
forcing mothers to name fathers on them really encourage active involvement or
foster a sense of responsibility?
Certainly it might well make
it easier to deal with issues of child maintenance but the rationale behind the
proposals appears to be that signing the certificate or being named as the
child’s father will boost the sense of responsibility and mean that more
fathers remain involved with their children beyond separation.
David Lammy, MP for Tottenham
mentioned on the BBC in June the effect that his father walking out on his
family had on him as a child. Mr Lammy said:
"I missed someone help me learn how to shave, someone help me
learn how to do up my tie, someone to talk to in those teenage years that can
be so difficult.”
"No-one there on Fathers' Day, no-one at the end
of the football game that you were playing, all of those things where the
absence of the father is felt acutely”
"Of course relationships break down but active
fathers make a huge difference to the lives of young people."
In the same piece Adrienne
Burgess, joint chief executive of the Fatherhood Institute, said: "Requiring both parents to sign the
birth certificate sends out a powerful message that our expectations of mothers
and fathers are equal.”
"Meanwhile, 45,000 children every year are losing
out because they do not know, and often never will know, who their father
is."
I accept that there are
undoubtedly cases where mothers are obstructive in allowing fathers Contact
with their children or to develop a meaningful relationship with them but I
can’t help but wonder about the responsibility of men who biologically father
children but then apparently do nothing to discover if the child is theirs and,
if it is, to establish a relationship with them – even if that means Court
proceedings.
I am sceptical about whether
forcing a mother to name a father on a child’s birth certificate is really
likely to encourage more fathers to become actively involved with their
children or maintain that involvement.
In addition, naming a father
on a birth certificate has the effect of giving him Parental Responsibility for
the child, entitling him to be consulted in terms of decisions on schooling,
religious upbringing, medical treatment etc. and preventing the child’s removal
from England & Wales for periods in excess of 4 weeks without his consent.
If a father chooses to
disengage then with the child or the child is born from a short relationship,
one-night stand, extra marital affair - where the father really has no interest
in maintaining his relationship with the child - the fact of his PR may well
cause difficulty for the mother down the line.
I agree that children should
be aware of their paternity and that it is healthy and vital for their sense of
identity and belonging but I am concerned that these proposals really achieve
legal identification of a child’s father and focus less on what children really
would benefit from, active involvement in their lives by their fathers.
Thanks to Mr Lee who had the following to say to me after this post:
ReplyDelete"Thanks Louise. You make a good point. Like you I'm not sure that a name on a birth certificate is going to make fathers do what should really come naturally.
About twenty-five years ago I was luck y enough to become the step-father to a lovely little nine year old girl and her younger brother. Six years ago I had the privilege of giving a beautiful woman away at her wedding. During all that time her father hardly ever contacted her, he made no maintenance payments ever to her mother, showed no interest in her school, her development or her career. Of course he was the loser. And I have been an immensely fortunate man.
I know there there is a tiny tiny part of my stepdaughter that is terribly hurt by her father's indifference and neglect. And his name is on her birth certificate. And for my darling girl, it's not worth the paper it's written on."