One in three American citizens live in a stepfamily and 30% of
children in the U.S are currently growing up in a stepfamily. In the UK in 2008,
more than 10% of families with dependent children were step families and
stepfamilies were the fastest growing type of family. It has even been
previously estimated that there are more step families than “nuclear” families.
Having a step-parent suggests that the family has previously been
through a divorce, which will have been a huge ordeal, especially for the
children, and the changes and emotions that are felt when a new step-parent
comes into the family can be difficult. Resentment, anger and divided loyalty
can see previously amicable relationships damaged with the consequences felt by
the children and all involved.
And yet there are many step families who work hard with these
issues every day, foster good relationships between the children and new step
parent and between the adults involved and who, despite the difficulties,
remain together and provide a stable environment for the children in the family
unit.
So, if your family is a step family, on the 16th
September (even if you are not in the U.S) take a moment to think about the
positives and some time together.
